Thursday, December 24, 2009

It was ANOTHER girl!

I can't believe it. It was more me than Jacob who couldn't take the fact... :D I was so sure to have a boy this time. So I kept asking Jacob, "Are you excited? Are you excited about the ultrasound today?" But as soon as the ultrasound specialist told us that it was a girl, I barely managed not to panic - I kept silence for a minute - and said quietly, "I always thought it was going to be a boy... I can't believe the expecting mother was wrong..." I was hoping that the specialist would ignore me, but she heard me and said, "Oh really? Let's check it again." So she checked it again and explained that seeing 3 dots there was a girl and seeing a turtle there was a boy :D

Emma knew that it was going to be a girl for the whole time. She always said that she was going to call the baby, "Emma" :D So she was happy when the baby was going to be a girl for sure.

Jacob still took us all out to eat. While we were eating, I couldn't stop smiling unevenly, feeling as if I was "punked" :D

On the way home in the car, I asked, "SO, since we don't have a girl's name, what would you like to name her?" Our quiet Lydia was the first one to respond. "Angelina!" I instantly liked that name. That was the name I wanted to name Emma but was objected by Jacob, and our girls always liked the name from the cute mouse in their book and used that name for a doll play very often. Emma followed, "Yeah, Angelina!" I still kept my preference to myself and asked Daddy, "How about you?" Jacob thought for a while, and responded, "Yeah, I don't mind that name at all." My heart leapt for joy!

For a few days, I still felt numb. I had to re-wire my thinking.

When I went to a playdate, I witnessed my girls peaking into somebody's baby girl's pink carseat. I then realized, "Wow, this is the picture in the 5 months. 3 girls!" It was dazzling. How dynamic to have 3 girls.

Since then, I'm getting 2 kinds of responses. "Ohhhhh noooooo, I'm sorry for Jacob!" and "I want a girl too! You are so lucky!" My parents are happy that we are having another girl too. They were relieved that they don't have to buy anything new and all the clothes they have bought will be in good use.

When my dad was here, we already made a "boy's" room half-way so I'm re-arranging the room for a guest's bedroom. I had never gone shopping for guest's bedroom, so I'm having a lot of fun. With the Nelson's last-minute help, we could make a beautiful guest bed just in time for Jacob's stepmother to sleep on for Christmas Eve.

My parents don't like the name, Angelina. They complained that our girls' names were getting longer :D I defended, "But you can call her Lina. Isn't that cute?" Then I soon realized that it sounded too close to Rena, my niece in Japan. I may have to register a completely Japanese name for a Japanese governmental use, and keep Angelina to American use. She may get lost with 2 first names in 2 different continents, but at least her identity theft will be difficult :p Or make it "Alina." But in Japanese, "Alina" and "arena" will sound the same.... I don't know what to do. I still have time to think, right?

2 comments:

Warth Family said...

Congratulations yall! Another girl, means another gun! LOL! Very exciting! Question is....Will yall try yet again for a boy?

June said...

Thanks, Angela! Jacob loves your comment ;) Oh yeah, we will keep going until we have 12 dancing princesses and a boy here and there ;D