Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Our Puppy and YMCA / ラッシーとYMCA

先週の金曜日はジェイコブの休みだったので、また私たちのワンちゃんを見に行きました。名前は「ラッシー」になりました。「小さな女の子」という意味です。(実は名犬ラッシーは訓練がしやすいのでメス犬だったってご存知でした?)この前は目がまだ開いてなかったので分からなかったのですが、ラッシー、目が青いんです。ほかの兄弟の目も黒かったり、茶色かったり、薄いグレーだったり、へぇ、同じ兄弟でもこんなに違うんだなぁって感じです。ジェイコブがラッシーが来るのを毎日とても楽しみにしていて、まるで3人目の赤ちゃんが生まれてくるかのようです。今回は私が産まなくていいので、ママのマヤちゃんありがとうって感じです^^ ラッシーは12月1日あたりに帰ってくる予定。

もっとラッシーといたいよーという気持ちを後に、その足でYMCAのプールへ。ジェイコブがエマに約束してたので、ちゃんと守ってもらえて、エマはまた父親への信頼感が増したようです。ここ2週間ほど私だけでも、2人を連れて週に2回ほどプールに行っていたのですが、2人の成長ぶりにびっくり。その前まで2人とも私にしがみっつきぱなしで全然一人で泳ごうとしなかったのですが、エマを無理やり引き離したら、「は!私泳げる!」って一人でも大丈夫なことを発見したようです。そしてその2週間後、2歳近くも離れているのにリディアも負けずに一人で泳いでくれました。2人目って学習が早い。目を見張るものがあります。プールから出る直前には一人でプールからよじ登ってジャンピングまで披露してくれました。リディアはもう赤ちゃんではないのね~。

Last Friday on Jacob's day off, we went to see our "Lassie" again. We couldn't see last time because her eyes were closed but we found out that she had blue eyes. In humans, we cannot have blue eyed children, so this is kinda exciting to me :) Jacob cannot wait for Lassie to come home everyday. This reminds me of when we were about to have our girls. I'm glad I didn't have to do the work of bringing our girl's soul to this world this time. Thanks, Mama Maya! She will come home around December 1st.

It was hard to leave Lassie, but we headed for YMCA. Emma was glad that Jacob kept his promise again. It's only YMCA but it is very important for Emma to be able to count on her Daddy :) I have been bringing our girls to YMCA twice a week lately by myself, and Emma finally became able to let go of me about a week ago. But this day, Lydia showed her independence by swimming by herself too. They are almost 2 years apart, but the second child learns so much quicker. It is fun to have difference experiences with each child. When we were about to get out, Lydia even climbed out by herself and jumped into Jacob's arms. She is not a baby anymore (O v O)


Sunday, November 16, 2008

Stake Conference Adult Session

I was very excited about the Stake Conference this time because there seemed to be a lot of changes in society and politics. I was wondering what the Leaders were going to tell us to do, more specifically than at the General Conference.

To my surprise, the Satke Conference was about at the same tone, which makes me think that the basics are the most important and most overlooked, and if we procrastinate to follow the counsels until they sound urgent, we would be the foolish virgins.

I enjoyed one sister's talk: "I'm never too busy to help a friend." This sounded very appropriate in these days. People are just simply busy nowadays, but I really appreciate my friends, Jon, Carrie, Lindsey, Beverly, S. Nelson, S. Greene, S. Jakeman, and S. Nielsen to help me with genealogy, making apple cider and Jacob's schooling decisions. I was thankful to have these wonderful friends who were never too busy to help a friend. And I bet these friends will accomplish more things because the Lord will bless them abundantly.

Elder Coleman's talk was simple to understand, and powerful. I had never deeply questioned why "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" was published in 1995 and "The Living Christ" in 2000. Duh. Our Church First Presidency foresaw what was coming: Not only the ever rising divorce rate but the ever widening definition of marriage, acceptance of abortion, confusion of gender roles, and ignorance and ignoring of Christ our Savior in society, politics and public schools. How are people going to be saved? Good question.

Two weeks earlier, I was inspired to take a BYU online class that contained Doctrine and Covenants 89 and 112. By learning how to apply the Word of Wisdom to my life, I learned how to apply other things in my life too. It is impossible to understand D&C without the knowledge of history and the reason for the revelations. This is why sctipture study surpasses scripture reading. Taking this class made me realize I needed something on the side: Ensign, BYU class, church textbooks, etc. to understand scriptures.

Anyway, when Elder Coleman was talking about Stakes of Zion, thanks to the class, I was reminded of what kind of price was paid to build the Kirtland Temple and Stakes. And I loved hearing, "Arise and shine forth, that thy light may be a standard for the nations; And that the gathering together upon the land of Zion, and upon her stakes, may be for a defense, and for a refuge from the storm, and from wrath when it shall be poured out without mixture upon the whole earth. (D&C 115:5-6)" We need to have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and the Father who provided the plan and Jesus Christ.

Ruby's foster mother, Sister Nelson, and I sat straight when Elder Coleman talked about Ruby who just got baptized. She was cut off from her family but she opened the door to her future family; maybe her sons will serve a mission to help others open their doors to their families; maybe she will do some temple works for her family before her; and she will have a huge family on the other side. And they will say, "Thank you for joining the Church." How powerful this sounded to me!

No one will teach our children about eternal family. This is our defense: family scripture study, family prayer, family home evening, date night :), church services and temple attendance.

Monday, November 10, 2008

ママがエマちゃん抱っこしてるの




Emma started drawing faces today. After a couple of practices, she drew Mama holding Emma. I thought this was classic :)

Super Chilling Halloween






Our Halloween night was very busy. Around 6 PM, we dressed up in Yukata and headed for church. We had yummy chilli - I was hoping for hot dogs to be less messy, but it was good chilli :) - and went through spooky rooms to collect candies and toys. Sometimes Emma was too skeptical to go in, so they had to turn on the light :) I wasn't so sure about Yukata for Halloween because it wasn't creative - we just wore something we had - but people in our ward were very nice. Even after Halloween, people came up to us and said they appreciated that we "shared our culture." Wow, what a big deal!!

Then we headed to the Wesley Methodist Church to meet my host family. They welcomed us with their Trunk or Treat in the parking lot. We only meet so many times a year, we had a lot to update. We were talking in the chill for good half an hour.

Then we went to Jacob's sister's house. They opened up their huge shop for no-gambling Poker, kids' games and mothers to sit and eat :) And in their backyard, oh my goodness, they made a graveyard and a coffin that automatically opens and shuts along with spooky chanting!!!! On top of that, as soon as we were about to head back to the shop, they ran out of gas, so it got completely dark except a few plastic neon lights that they had dropped on the path. I had never had such a chilling Halloween!!! That was good :D